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Month: April 2020
THE WEIRD NORMAL
*The Weird normal*
In my mind when nobody is around is like that poor kid during a launch break at school. Cutting through his meager launch not more than a bite, he smiles. Not giving a damn about the taste of the food he devours all on sight, whiles holding in his left hand the lollipop đ of his life.
No kids Will play with him, so he talks to that little toy he calls Smart. Explaining all the things he’d wish to have, the nice school uniform, thinking about that boy who broke his pencil âď¸ for no reason, wishing there was more food and maybe he could get a bike if he tops the class. He will play game after game with Smart, before he realizes, it’s “break over”.
The only difference between that little boy and me is that, in my lonesome hours with my friend, I don’t think of broken pencils, I drown myself in the wishful euphoria of dating that fine girl who sits next to me in literature class. Neither do I think of uniforms, I desire for that Gucci or iPhone 11 pro Max, the only bike that comes to my mind is the one with four Wheels.
Actually my friend talks, because he’s not just Smart but he’s a phone, that makes him a Smartphone.
*This is weird because our phones have actually taken up the roles of real people in our lives. And that’s why social distancing didn’t start today because of corona virus.*
Amazing Abdul
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*Day one of the 30 days Quarantine Writers Challenge*
LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT?
*Do I believe in love? Yes, absolutely, do I believe in Love at first sight? Yes if it was in a Hollywood movieđ. *
*_Love at first sight is scam_ *
It takes a minute to get a _Crush_ on someone, an hour to _like_ someone and approximately a day to _love_ someone.
Love is built on admiration turned to what we commonly call a _crush_. This can however vanish quickly if not acted upon.
Crushes turn to liking. One gets to like another by talking with the person, by watching the actions or activities of the person or actually just physical appearance. This however differs from males to females, males are very quick to crush, like and fall for females more often and quicker than females. Why Is this so? This phenomenon is encoded in the very cortex of the male evolutionary structure, as the Alfa, males are sharper in terms of “conquest”. Please this must be understood purely on evolutionary basis not some cooked up feminist point of view.
The idea of love to the male is submission and respect. Once the Alfa male gets these signals, his love senses are torched and eventually he can fall in love.
For the female, it’s a little complicated, you never really know when a woman falls or how she falls until she’s deeply in love. The first thing that strikes a female is power of attraction. This is way too broad for a random post like this, but next time I get time, I’ll deal with it exclusively.
*Again, it goes back to our evolutionary make up. Women are more likely to like the Alfa male a hundred times than they will a normal male. The Alfa is confident, strong in demeanor and character and protective(physically and financially). A woman can’t like a man not to talk of falling in love with him without running this evolutionary installed software. It works like magic. Believe you me, before you approach a lady, she’d already run this diagnosis in nanoseconds.*
The Alfa male a female is likely to crush on, like, or love has these four qualities; Steve Harvey calls it the 3Ps.
He must be in a position to _Profess_
He must be able to _Provide_ most important in the 21st century.
He must be able to _Protect_
The female as the subsidiary of the Alfa male will evolutionarily develop attachment to a man with these. Because it’s natural.
*So to the 21st Century confused boys with hormonal disordersđ, before you approach a lady, run the prep diagnosis of the 3Ps on yourself first.*
May all the hopeless romantics out there find solace in love.
Yours truly,
Amazing Abdul.
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SMILE
*My magnet*
It’s amazing how this affair denounces and disproves the laws of physics. I thought like terms repel, but you and I are more alike than anything else, yet we attract so tight.
*Your simplest smile exposes your unadulterated teeth, a simple twist in the teeth sets the galaxy ablaze with sparkles of love and affection, kindness and serenity. My magnet is that face that wears a smile.*
*My magnet is that soul filled with compassion beyond reasonable doubts. My magnet doesn’t discriminate, she sees no color nor ethnicity or religion, all she sees is people of the world.*
*My magnet is special, smile a little, smile once more, smile often because you never know who that pretty face of yours inspires and motivates.*
Abdul
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*Day three of the Quarantine Writers Challenge.*
FOR THE BETTER
*For the Better*
Change they say is inevitable. The choice is ours either to change consciously or be changed unconsciously.
The past two years has been one hell of a ride. Disappointment upon disappointment, self doubt coupled with indiscipline, excuses could have been easily mistaken for my middle name.
Once I genuinely blamed myself for my mistakes and shortcomings, the change I needed raised it’s beautiful head and smiled at me at a distance. I could perceive it’s sweet scented nectar ready to be sucked. But there was more work to do.
My laters became nows, I realized that any time I pointed a finger, four were pointing at me, what I used to see as problems gradually turned into opportunities and My instant gratifications became generational blueprints.
Simply, we must take responsibility now if we indeed want to effect the change we need in our lives. Make conscious decisions now, be intentional about your needs and remember the time is always right to do what is right. Fail, fall once more and fall again, make sure you keep failing forward.
Amazing Abdul
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*Day two of the 30 days Quarantine Writers Challenge*
SOCIAL RULES NOBODY WILL TEACH YOU.
These are Some social rules that may help you to look professional:
1. Donât call someone more than twice continuously. If they donât pick up your call that means they have something more important to attend to.
2. Return money that you have borrowed even before the other person remembers lending it to you. Be it 1Ghc or 100Ghc. It shows your integrity and character. Same goes with umbrellas, pens and shoes.
3. Never order the expensive dish on the menu when someone is treating you for lunch/dinner. If possible ask them to order their choice of food for you.
4. Donât ask awkward questions like âOh so you arenât married yet?â Or âDonât you have kidsâ or âWhy didnât you buy a house?â For godâs sake it isnât your problem.
5. Always open the door for the person coming behind you. Doesnât matter if it is a guy or a girl. You donât grow small by treating someone well in public.
6. If you take a taxi with a friend, and he/she pays now, you pay next time.
7. Respect different political opinions.
8. Never interrupt people talking.
9. If you tease someone, and they donât seem to enjoy it, stop it and never do it again.
10. Say âthank youâ when someone is helping you.
11. Praise publicly. Criticize privately.
12. Thereâs almost never a reason to comment on someoneâs weight. Just say, âYou look fantastic.â If they want to talk about losing weight, they will.
13. When someone shows you a photo on their phone, donât swipe left or right. You never know whatâs next.
14. If a colleague tells you they have a doctors appointment, donât ask what itâs for, just say hope youâre ok. If they want to talk about it they will and you donât put them in the uncomfortable position of having to tell you their personal illness.
15. Treat the cleaner with the same respect as the CEO. Nobody is impressed at how rudely you can treat someone below you but people will notice if you treat them with respect.
16. If a person is speaking directly to you, staring at your phone is rude.
17. Never give advice until youâre asked
18. When meeting someone after a long time, unless they want to talk about it, donât ask them their age and salary.
19. Mind your own business unless anything involves you directly â just stay out of it.
20. Take off your sunglasses if you are talking to anyone in the street. It is a sign of respect and more eye contact is as important as your speech.
enjoy your day.
Educated, Intelligent or a Genius?
Educated people are good at school. They memorize stuff and can answer school-type questions. They do well in Multiple choice questions, they make through college and often in the real world but they just follow rules – even hidden rules like looking good, saying the right things and being a good âcogâ in the wheel. Educated people are caught in a paradigm, but theyâre good at that paradigm.
Intelligent people get it at a deeper level. They understand the why and the how more deeply. They can sometimes see how things work at basic level and can fix both basic and complex problems. These people can work within âthe systemâ but are often frustrated by the systemâs inability to achieve real, productive change because the system is dominated by people who put their own needs ahead of the needs of whatever system they are part of.
Geniuses are a different kind of people, very rare. They see things even more elementally. They see how more of the parts fit together and can envision solutions that demand a deeper understanding of the complexity, and often the simplicity of interactions that make up the world. Unfortunately, these people do not often speak the same language as the people who are often in power, who did well in school and understand how the exterior system works.
Geniuses and intelligent people are often less self-centred because they see how they are a part of something else rather than being the centre of the world. People who put themselves at the centre of the world tend to offer poor and often destructive solutions to solve problems because the complexities of these problems are hidden from them by their narcissism.
Who would you rather be, an Educated person, an Intelligent person or a genius?.
Love at first Sight.
*Do I believe in love? Yes, absolutely, do I believe in Love at first sight? Yes if it was in a Hollywood movieđ. *
*_Love at first sight is scam_ *
It takes a minute to get a _Crush_ on someone, an hour to _like_ someone and approximately a day to _love_ someone.
Love is built on admiration turned to what we commonly call a _crush_. This can however vanish quickly if not acted upon.
Crushes turn to liking. One gets to like another by talking with the person, by watching the actions or activities of the person or actually just physical appearance. This however differs from males to females, males are very quick to crush, like and fall for females more often and quicker than females. Why Is this so? This phenomenon is encoded in the very cortex of the male evolutionary structure, as the Alfa, males are sharper in terms of “conquest”. Please this must be understood purely on evolutionary basis not some cooked up feminist point of view.
The idea of love to the male is submission and respect. Once the Alfa male gets these signals, his love senses are torched and eventually he can fall in love.
For the female, it’s a little complicated, you never really know when a woman falls or how she falls until she’s deeply in love. The first thing that strikes a female is power of attraction. This is way too broad for a random post like this, but next time I get time, I’ll deal with it exclusively.
*Again, it goes back to our evolutionary make up. Women are more likely to like the Alfa male a hundred times than they will a normal male. The Alfa is confident, strong in demeanor and character and protective(physically and financially). A woman can’t like a man not to talk of falling in love with him without running this evolutionary installed software. It works like magic. Believe you me, before you approach a lady, she’d already run this diagnosis in nanoseconds.*
The Alfa male a female is likely to crush on, like, or love has these four qualities; Steve Harvey calls it the 3Ps.
He must be in a position to _Profess_
He must be able to _Provide_ most important in the 21st century.
He must be able to _Protect_
The female as the subsidiary of the Alfa male will evolutionarily develop attachment to a man with these. Because it’s natural.
*So to the 21st Century confused boys with hormonal disordersđ, before you approach a lady, run the prep diagnosis of the 3Ps on yourself first.*
May all the hopeless romantics out there find solace in love.
Yours truly,
Amazing Abdul.
0264618894
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